You know that sex is an important part of any relationship. But there is always the question of whether or not you should delay having sex with him. It is important to you that you don’t give off the wrong impression-you don’t want to seem easy, but at the same time, you don’t want him to think you’re too safe. So how long is too long?
Let’s be honest, you’ve wondered more than once if having sex with him will strengthen your relationship or ruin it. This is a very common question because there are a lot of emotional and mental connections that come with having sex. You want a serious relationship, but does that mean you have to have sex?
Sex can be extremely personal and intimate. Depending on the type of relationship you are looking for, you may want to delay having sex with him until the time is right. This will give you both a chance to get to know each other and become intimate.
Delaying sex does not mean there can be no other forms of foreplay.
Just because you delay going all the way with him does not mean you cannot explore each other physically. In fact, this is a good way to prepare for sex and strengthen your relationship. He will not feel as anxious or bored and it will take the pressure off of wondering if you are making him wait too long.
It is important to do what makes you comfortable. Remember, you are worth waiting for and if he does not see that or puts pressure on you to do something you’re not ready for, he is not worth it to begin with. Delaying having sex with him can strengthen you relationship because it gives you the opportunity to know he respects you and your decisions. But, there is nothing wrong to giving into temptation if you are both ready to do so.
Keeping a relationship healthy and happy takes real work. If you’re serious about improving your relationship and restoring the love you had while you were first dating there is a step-by-step method you can use.
