Do You Have Sex Appeal?

Sex is always a topic that receives critical interest from the human kind and even our fellow animals. The main reason for this might be that sex is a good thing. However, in many spheres of society, this topic continues to be taboo. This is because different conservative institutions like churches know the power of sex and what it can do to people. From a religious point of view (not to limit this view), sex is for particular people. Above all, sex is viewed as something that can destroy if not used properly.

There is a lot of truth to the above concern but, have you ever really explored the power of sex. What can this power do for you? Is it wrong to tap into the power of sex in the first place for different benefits? These questions will obviously elicit many personal sentiments. Although we may not all agree on engaging the power of sex, it is important to understand the bare facts about the power of sex.

When a person decides to make money by selling their body, they are definitely benefiting but, this is often deemed as negative.

However, when people use sex appeal to sell their products like cloths, shoes, cars, music videos and so on, people are more tolerant with this.

This goes to show that the power of sex can be used (not in an extreme way) to help you reach your goals and targets. This article is meant to open eyes and to show that you can use sex appeal in a positive way. The fact that God created woman as an attractive person shows that there is need to celebrate this advantage. You do not have to be a prostitute to maximize this power. The following are practical tips that will show women how to celebrate who they are; which is beautiful and sexy beings.

• WHAT YOU WEAR does matters a lot. If you are not bound to religious beliefs, it is vital to love your body and look for cloths that will make you stand out as a woman. Wearing trashy will not earn you respect but wearing thoughtfully will earn you praise. Look for cloths that are able to highlight who you are without exposing yourself

• HOW YOU MOVE also speaks volumes. Every woman has the capacity to tap into that positive power of sex to enable them move in an attractive manner. It is all about taking time and appreciating who you are. We may not always manage to walk like super models in cat walks but, we can improve. If you are a woman, stop walking like a man.

• WHAT YOU SAY will show how attractive you are. The power of our sexuality lies in our mouths. If you are a bitter person who never has anything to say, you should not be surprised why you never have a crowd of fans. If you are an unmarried woman, you want to speak pleasant things because a good body is not enough to get you a good man. With the above, you can use your God-given sexual appeal to have confidence in yourself and to make others appreciate you even more.

Emma Wanjiku is an experienced writer who focuses on issues affecting you. Her research is based on all aspects and topics of life. For more tips and information go to http://www.emmalifetips.blogspot.com.

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Sex Dreams

The human sex drive is incredibly strong and dreams about sex can tell you how you are dealing with this important part of your life

You may dream about sex very often during times in your life when your hormones are very active, for example, during adolescence or during pregnancy.

A dream that you are having sex with someone other than your spouse or partner can be very worrying. Does it mean that there is something wrong with your relationship? Be assured that the purpose of such a dream is to provide you with a healthy way to fulfill your secret desires without causing harm to yourself or anyone else.

In fact, depending on the nature of your relationship, sharing your sex dreams with your spouse or partner can help you to become more honest with each other and enrich your sexual relations in waking life.

In the same manner, if your partner or spouse tells you that they have been dreaming about sex with someone else, it does not mean that they are unsatisfied with their sex life or thinking about cheating.

It is possible that sexual dreams can be a sign of sexual frustration. If you have gone without sex for a long time, your unconscious will attempt to satisfy your sex drive in your dreams.

You may also use dreams to satisfy your sexual needs if you find sex in waking life to be boring or unsatisfying.

If you think that is the reason you are having sex dreams, you should consider having a discussion with your partner or spouse regarding how you can both make your sex life more exciting. Of course, you should respect your loved ones’ wishes and values, and never expect anyone to perform sexual acts that they are not comfortable with. You may have to keep some of the more risqué content of your sexual dreams in your imagination, or else consider whether this relationship is the right one for you.

If you dream that you are having sex with an attractive person, your unconscious may be trying to help you feel good about yourself. This is especially true if you dream you are having sex with a sexy celebrity.

The human sex drive is incredibly strong and dreams about sex can tell you how you are dealing with this important part of your life

You may dream about sex very often during times in your life when your hormones are very active, for example, during adolescence or during pregnancy.

If you dream that you have sex with someone you know, you may have unconsciously picked up subtle clues that lead you to believe that person is attracted to you. That person may simply be too shy to let you know, or they may have a legitimate reason not to act on that attraction, for example, that either you or they are unavailable.

If you dream that your partner or spouse is unfaithful, there is a small chance that you have unconsciously noticed warning signs of infidelity. However, it is more likely that this dream means that you feel that your spouse or partner is neglecting you. Perhaps they are spending too much time at work or indulging a hobby, or not listening to you enough.

It’s very common to dream about sex with an ex. This doesn’t mean that you want to get back with your ex or that you are unhappy with your current relationship. Your unconscious is probably just looking back at the issues and patterns of your old relationship, so you can learn from them in order to improve your current or future relationships.

Carl Jung thought that sex between a man and a woman represented the union of the masculine and feminine aspects of your personality. If you are a woman, the masculine part of your personality is known as the “animus.” If you are a man, the feminine part of your personality is called the “anima”.

Because sex is associated with procreation, sex dreams can be about creativity in general. Being a particular powerful and creative lover in your dreams can mean that you have the potential to create great things when you are awake.

Have you had a dream about sex with a member of the same sex? If you are gay or bisexual, this will just be a typical sexual dream, and probably doesn’t bother you very much, if it all. However, if you consider yourself exclusively heterosexual, you may find such a dream to be extremely worrisome.

It is possible that a dream about having gay sex reflects a repressed attraction to members of the same sex. Many psychologists believe that we are all bisexual to some degree; your dreams give you an opportunity to explore your hidden sexual desires in a safe environment.

A dream about gay sex can also be your unconscious mind’s way of suggesting that you explore your attitude toward homosexuality.

Alternatively, a dream about sex with a member of the same sex can just be a way of pointing out our strong emotional bonds to your friends of the same sex. In the same way, if you are gay and dream about sex with someone of the opposite sex, your dream may simply be highlighting your close bonds with opposite sex friends.

Marcia Malory
Meaning of Dreams

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How To Have Better Sex

If you’re a woman who wants to have better sex, forget all the gadgets and gizmos and instead concentrate on using your conscious breath. Because if you have trouble reaching climax it could be due to you holding your breath at the peak of arousal, instead of breathing through it so it speak, and increasing your chance of orgasm.

We all breathe each and everyday without giving it much thought, but by being more in touch with your breathing you can not only improve your general health, but also give a welcome boost to your sex life. By using deep abdominal breathing, you can relax and prepare your body for sex as well as help clear your mind. Crucially, it will increase circulation and deliver flows of extra oxygen to your lungs, bloodstream, muscles and those most important sex organs.

If you feel you are getting “stuck” so to speak it could be because you are unintentionally holding your breath as you become more aroused.

This prevents circulation and blocks the flow of energy leaving your body rigid and inflexible. Instead of gradually being able to ”let go”, and have a flood of orgasmic energy take over you, you may end up stuck in an almost tortuous pleasure state, unable to finally let go. You can use deep abdominal breathing before sex and during slow sensuous foreplay. You can start by lying on your back to calm and centre yourself as you begin to breathe slowly and deeply. This type of breathing when done correctly should expand the back of your lungs, and send your breath from east to west, at each inhale. After a few breaths, you should also feel a mild tingling sensation in your genital area.

This is also a good breathing technique to use during foreplay or female self pleasuring. Ensure to take your time, draw it out and enjoy your body as it thrives with extra oxygen. This also one of the best savvy sex tips to use when during the heights of sex you want to slow things with your partner down, and maintain your level of sexual pleasure.

As things progress, naturally your breathing will change with the tempo. But now is the time to ensure you keep breathing rather than holding your breath as the intensity grows. Use your breath to ‘drive’ your sexual experience and as you desire more arousal and stimulation, breathe rapidly and with purpose (panting) to increase blood flow, and with practice reach the final crescendo.

For extra intensity try positions where you can maintain eye contact with your partner. In addition to using your breath to its maximum capacity, eye contact is incredibly powerful at matching your breathing while creating an intense and compelling connection.

Importantly, this new breathing method will take some time to get used to. It’s always fun though learning how to have better sex. Practice with your partner and make conscious breathing a part of your regular lovemaking. As your sexual energy builds and just before climax, relax and expand your abdomen with your breath, opening the passage to a satisfying full body orgasm

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